The Process They Need and All the Love Support

Sometimes even our best-intentioned loved ones make inadvertent yet serious mistakes when trying to help a trauma survivor. Following a trauma or abuse, survivors sometimes suffer and ptsd treatment is needed. The top annoying or most damaging blunders or assumptions people make when trying to help someone or ptsd treatment to recognize it’s agonizing for loved ones to watch a trauma survivor suffer so much and of course they want to help make things better as ptsd treatment. ptsd is a very real internal battle that the sufferer has no control over and intense and horrific which invisible to the outside world and it’s the darkest place you can imagine. The emotions one feels with ptsd are terrifying and overwhelming as well that may not look like it from the outside but it’s happening on the inside. Be sensitive to that possibility when ptsd treatment is ongoing. Trauma that brings on ptsd treatment is not just as bad memory that’ll be forgotten over time. This trauma has created a shift in the way that person perceives the entire world around them.

This trauma has left catastrophic markers in the brain and body that only increase in intensity over time. Recovery takes time and there’s a lot of time that you can’t rush someone with ptsd treatment to get better which is a very long process they need and all the love support to the patient as they go through these difficult battle.  Please do not assume you know what the sufferer is feeling or what they need to do to fix things to every person’s journey with ptsd treatment is a unique as the prints on our fingers that may have heard something worked for someone else with ptsd treatment. But it may not work for your loved one and that should be talking works for some and would be detrimental inconceivable and impossible for another that must give them time to figure out what works for them. Please don’t try to force them to talk about their trauma and their pain, just encourage them to tell you’re ready to listen when they’re ready to talk but they may never be and that should need to be okay.

Post-adoption issues are similar to ptsd, in fact in some cases unaddressed post-adoption issues can turn into ptsd by losing the heritage ethnicity and biology that for some way in which the adoption occurred is a traumatic event is certainly not the same type of trauma experienced. It could argue about degree and depth and damage but adoption involves loss and grief nonetheless. Whether or not the adoption had a happy adoptive family doesn’t negate the fact that their adoption signaled a loss. Framing it as it should be happy when adopted isn’t okay for an adoptee to have issues that shouldn’t matter if supporting an adoptee as they try to process emotions does not involve negating the experience is also one of the ptsd treatment. Hearing this a lot in a reunion to have a good relationship through birth and adoptive family who’s processing a lot of trauma issues. I’ve “outed” myself as an adoptee publicly. So people wonder why can’t I stop talking and writing and thinking about it? Why can’t I just get over it already.